Why Marriages Don't PT3 Finale

Him and her get married it is good the first year and both realize there are small pet peeves they do not like about each other. He snores, she does not like to have sex as much, he is not affectionate, she does not recognize his good deeds, he wants kids, and she does not. These are some strong components in a relationship that God did not necessarily prepare him or her for. These are just natural things that people require. Some of these things are so intolerable they cannot be overlooked. Solution time! Let us pray about it. Pray day 1, day 2, day 3, nothing changes. Fast for 40days 40 nights nothing changes. Then go the Pastor he says continue to pray and go will work it out. This is not the predicament sometimes in marriage it causes for a right now solution not a later solution. The marriage continues to be unfulfilling. They both neither are not happy. They stay together because as religious people you hold on and pray eventually God will make a way. Meanwhile, 10 yrs have passed. By this time you both have learned how to look married not be married. I have always said “religion teaches people how to look married not be married.” Both finally take their emotions into their on hands. He begins to cheat, and she begins to neglect him furthermore. The marriage has been over but both do not want to say anything. It is incurable. Certain intangibles you both lack, which makes you both non-compatible. The resolution is finally to divorce and years have been waiting To conclude my theory, marriages do not last because religion teaches one how to look married and not be married. Church has become so involved in the doctrinating of both men and women they simply do not make the right decision in choosing their spouses. An example is instead of getting marital counseling from a professional counselor, religion makes you go to the pastor who is a one-book scholar. My solution is know who you are marrying do not rush it. Make sure there is some compatibility their because in the end that will be the cornerstone he or she needs in order to survive. My post was not meant to be offensive although many religious people will believe it is. It is to spread the word on to others who may not believe this way.