Baby Daddies

There has to be a symposium for the baby daddy theory. A baby daddy by my definition is a man who willfully engages in the act of impregnating a women but then denies the responsibilities of actually fathering the the child and all the duties that come along with that. When this occurs in society, and even the judicial system this man is known as a baby daddy. There are certain personas that are included in a baby daddy that are: • Lazy • Freeloading • Only wants sex • Only watches kids when he is begged by mother • Intentions are to always have other sexual occurrences with the mother • At times selfish when it comes to kids and mother, only cares about himself • Usually on child support • Usually does not have visitation privileges • Children normally speak to him a few times a month if any • Never sends money for a childs well being, but mandated by the child support system • Normally does have a job, but if so not enough money to wipe his ass with • Usually does some drug i.e. weed, alcohol etc. • Normally has multiple kids by different women Unfortunately there is no way to spot a potential dead beat baby daddy because all men can create that imitative image in order to get what he needs. It merely becomes convenience once getting the women permanently. According to the U.S. Census Bureau, Out of 12.2 million single parent families in 2012, more than 80% were headed by single mothers. I dare to break this down into more specifics based on race, culture, demographics etc. No women ask to be in these situations. Unfortunately most women value sex as bonding, spiritual, loving, and divine unlike some men not all. When you find a man who understands the beauty of children and their perfections along with innocence you can avoid one of these baby daddies.

Lee Daniels "Gay action film"

Lee Daniels wants to make a gay action film coming off the 85% fictional Butler story.

Thoughts....

http://www.out.com/entertainment/popnography/2013/10/09/lee-daniels-wants-make-gay-action-hero-movie-alex-pettyfer

Spiritual Concepts and Practices

We are nothing but energy. Can neither be created nor destroyed. Spiritual beings who are eqipped with what is needed to live as gods. We control our on destiny and have what is needed on earth to stand out and stand alone from those who choose dogma and doctrine.

T.D. Jakes on Preachers of LA

I have always had tremendous respect for Bishop TD Jakes. His ministry the things he does for Africa and his conscious awareness. TD Jakes unlike many pastors is not timorous to come out the so-called church comfort zone and speak on things that plague the community. In this video he begins to speak on "The Preachers of LA” reality show calling it "filth" Bishop Jakes I feel began to make his congregation aware that he is not what you call a "Money Hungry Pastor" however, this is what the reality show illustrates. It shows pastors living an extravagant multi-million dollar life style. Many would say their men of God should live this way but be discrete, others disagree especially if the church is not prospering you be the judge!!

However I respect his commentary and believe everyone should watch. I do not believe all pastors are sneaky and dirty just some. Church is a multi-billion dollar tax-free business.

Why Marriages Don't PT3 Finale

Him and her get married it is good the first year and both realize there are small pet peeves they do not like about each other. He snores, she does not like to have sex as much, he is not affectionate, she does not recognize his good deeds, he wants kids, and she does not. These are some strong components in a relationship that God did not necessarily prepare him or her for. These are just natural things that people require. Some of these things are so intolerable they cannot be overlooked. Solution time! Let us pray about it. Pray day 1, day 2, day 3, nothing changes. Fast for 40days 40 nights nothing changes. Then go the Pastor he says continue to pray and go will work it out. This is not the predicament sometimes in marriage it causes for a right now solution not a later solution. The marriage continues to be unfulfilling. They both neither are not happy. They stay together because as religious people you hold on and pray eventually God will make a way. Meanwhile, 10 yrs have passed. By this time you both have learned how to look married not be married. I have always said “religion teaches people how to look married not be married.” Both finally take their emotions into their on hands. He begins to cheat, and she begins to neglect him furthermore. The marriage has been over but both do not want to say anything. It is incurable. Certain intangibles you both lack, which makes you both non-compatible. The resolution is finally to divorce and years have been waiting To conclude my theory, marriages do not last because religion teaches one how to look married and not be married. Church has become so involved in the doctrinating of both men and women they simply do not make the right decision in choosing their spouses. An example is instead of getting marital counseling from a professional counselor, religion makes you go to the pastor who is a one-book scholar. My solution is know who you are marrying do not rush it. Make sure there is some compatibility their because in the end that will be the cornerstone he or she needs in order to survive. My post was not meant to be offensive although many religious people will believe it is. It is to spread the word on to others who may not believe this way.

How To Deactivate Your Willie Lynch Chip; Speaker Ray Hagins

I have seen and had an opportunity to meet Dr. Ray Hagin on several occasions. He is a licensed Clinical Psychologist but has dedicated the majority of his life to making blacks living in America to start embracing their culture by exposing them to African consciousness.  There is a term called Pan Africanism that I will be writing on the next few days. Enjoy the video!!!

DR. RAY HAGINS: Religious Miseducation - African Consciousness vs Europe...