Thursday, October 17, 2013
Why Marriages don't last pt2
Continuum of this series. Please read Pt1 in order to pick were I left off.
Men and women whereas they are in church or their point of worship it often thought of to have a husband or wife. This is one of the most ultimate goals. No women wants to be single forever so she is in hopes of finding a good God fearing man in church the same as the men (brothers). Both man and women have been conditioned in religion to make themselves available. The psychological conditioning begins.
View these following scriptures:
Malachi 2:14,15 But you say, “Why does he not?” Because the LORD was witness between you and the wife of your youth, to whom you have been faithless, though she is your companion and your wife by covenant.
1 Corinthians 7:2 But because of the temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband.
I do not mean to be blasphemous mentioning scriptures from the Christian bible, but they are relevant in this case while proving my point. With doctrine like this professed I believe a man and women psyche begins to change. The women who once had her guard up is now compromised. It is tough walking around seeing other women who are in these so-called happy marriages with kids, she the single women has nothing to show living her 29 years on the earth. It is nothing wrong being independent demanding a man to earn a certain salary, certain job, look a certain way, have no kids, tall dark and handsome, etc. This is your requirement nothing wrong with that. Religion tells you these are unrealistic. Let “God send you a man.” Many times a man does come but the women get confused, and it is not the one God sent but the desperation has already kicked in.
Next the man after begins to doubt his on wisdom from past relationships and puts finding good women in Gods hands because he has been let down so much. With many women this is also the case so vice versa. A man more than likely has been very promiscuous with his relationships. This is the only learning factor we have. We mess with enough no good women and realize is time for a change. Our requirements may be no kids, nice smile; personality can hang with the fellas and watch a game, not bothersome, etc. This goes out the window because when God sends good women we jump to the occasion often times overlooking our subconscious thoughts. The thoughts are saying do not rush it! Not right now! A little longer! She will come!
Here are what I consider pressure into marriage scriptures:
Matthew 19:26 (NIV)"Jesus looked at them and said, "With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible."
Genesis 2:18 (NIV)"The LORD God said, "It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him."
Genesis 2:24 (NIV) "For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh
Mark 10:6-9 (NIV)"But at the beginning of creation God 'made them male and female. 'For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.' So they are no longer two, but one. Therefore what God has joined together, let man not separate."
Hebrews 10:24 (NIV) "And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds."
1 Corinthians 7:3-5 (NIV) "The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. The wife's body does not belong to her alone but also to her husband. In the same way, the husband's body does not belong to him alone but also to his wife. Do not deprive each other except by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control."
By this time the women is ready for her husband and kids, she has been waiting long enough. With religion she has seen her pastors, and friends walk around happy in marriage so she wants it. The man is tired of his friends being married and asking when is he going to tie the not. Now done. Desperation! I just want to be married God will work whatever problems we have out. God will be the head of our marriage and things will work.
To be continued.....
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