Thursday, October 17, 2013
A Mans Faithfulness
Can a man be faithful to one woman? Many women catechize this question day in and day out. Even having relationships with their current significant others the questions have often pondered the imagination. I am here to answer this question as straight forward and honest as possible. Yes a man can be faithful to one woman. There are millions of men across the globe presently honoring and loving his queen promising a lifetime of fidelity. Lets understand the essence of a man and how this is possible. Men are not born faithful by nature but this is a habit that is often learned and then incorporated based on years of experience when having failed relationships. It more so environmental when it comes to most men. Not saying it is impossible to be faithful, I am sure with a certain upbringing or proper respect of women it is certainly attainable.
It is noteworthy to know that a women cannot make a man be faithful all she can do is acknowledge when he does so which makes him more confident and reliable in being a good men. I hate for women to have to endure this pain but he has to mess up enough in order to get it right. Now its up to those women to stay or leave during this process. On a heavenly note when a woman stays and endures the pains because she loves her man this much, I almost certainly guarantee you the man now that will love you forevermore. He will never leave, you will be all he smells, touches, hears, and see’s. A mans faithfulness to women often goes back to his up bringing as a man. The majority of the time, if he does not see his father being faithful or other male figures he considers role models doing so he will more than likely not be faithful either as a young adult. This also plays a role in the deadbeat dad syndrome etc. However this is a topic we will discuss another time.
There are good men out there unfortunately we never get it right the first time. It tough for us, women are more mature. However when we get it down that “faithfulness benefactor” it will be as a dream come true.
Solutions are to never expect to change a man. Dr Maya Angelou stated, “When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time.” Know what your getting into set criterions, etc. It is not impossible he can be faithful it is to you whether you choose to go through the growing pains until it is so.
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